Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But, it’s usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretences so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.
The shame and secrecy that a person carries regarding their sexuality can manifest in many ways, leading to depression, broken relationships, inappropriate sexual behaviours or simply the loss of self.
Counselling and Psychotherapy can assist you in exploring these issues in a safe and non-judgmental environment, allowing you the opportunity to explore your own thought and feelings, with a view to moving forward towards a more fulfilling and honest life.
Often the fear of being honest about their sexuality can lead them to disown a natural part of themselves. This detachment can create traumatic psychic pain which may manifest in a number of unhealthy symptoms.
Shame and repression
Understanding sexuality is a problem faced by many people, but one that is rarely shared or discussed. The repression of our innate self is an injustice to self. Space and time should be allowed for an honest and healthy exploration of self, allowing you to feel good about who you are, as you are.